Sohbat (Sex) Ka Islamic Tarika Part-1

Sohbat, Hambistari, Nikah, Marriage, Sex Education, Sex in Islam, Sohbat (sex) ka islamic tarika, sohbat ki dua, hadees, hadith, islam, quran

Important Ahadees Related to Nikah : 

  • Hazrat Ibne Abbas Radiallaho Anhu Se Riwayat He Ke, Huzoor Sallalaho Alayhi Wasallam Ne Irshad Farmaya, Gawaho Ke Bagair Nikah Karnewali Aurate Jaaniya ( Zina Karnewali ) Hain.
    [Tirmizi Sharif, Jild : 1, Safa:563, Hadees No.1095, Baab No.751]
  • Huzoor Sayyedna Gaus e Aazam Sheikh Abdul Qadir Jilani Radiallahu Anhu Farmate Hai, Nikah Jumerat ( Thursday ) Ya Jumma ( Friday ) Ko Karna Must'hab He Aur Subah Ki Bajaye Sham Ke Waqt Nikah Karna Behtar Hain.
    [Gunyatuttalebin, Baab No.5, Safa:115]
  • Jis Kisine Sohbat (Sex) Ki Bate Logo Me Bayan Ki Uski Misal Aisi He Jaise Shaitan Aurat Shaitan Mard Se Mile Aur Logo Ke Samne Hi Khule Aam Sohbat Karne Lage.
    [Abu Dawood, Jild : 2, Hadees No. 407, Safa : 155,baab No. 127]
  • Aaqa Sallalaho Alayhi Wasallam Ne Irshad Farmaya, Allah Ki Laanat Bad Nigahi Karnewale Par Aur Jiski Taraf Bad Nigahi Ki Jaye.
    [Bayhaqi Sharif, Mishkat Sharif, Jild : 2, Safa : 77]
  • Huzoor Sallalahu Alayhi Wasallam ne irshad farmaya, "Tum me se jo koi apni Biwi ke pas jaye to Parda kar le aur Gadhe ki tarah na shuru ho jaye"
    [Ibne Maja, Jild 1, Safa 538, Hadees no 1990, Bab no 616]
  • Ummul Momineen Hazrat Aayesha Siddiqa Radiallahu Anha se Riwayat he ki Huzoor Sallalahu Alayhi Wasallam ne irshad farmaya, "Jo Mard apni biwi ka hath usko behlane ke liye pakadta he, Allah ta'ala uske liye 1 neki likh deta he, Jab mard pyar se Aurat ke gale me hath dalta he uske haq me 10 nekiya likhi jati he, Aur jab Aurat se Sohbat karta he to Duniya aur jo kuch usme he un subse behtar ho jata he".
    [Gunyatuttalebin Safa 113]
  • Hazrat Muhammad (sallallahu alyhiwasallam) ne farmaya, 'Pakhane ki jagah me Aurat se Sohbat (sex) karna haram hai.
  • Hazrat Muhammad (sallallahu alyhiwasallam) ne farmaya, Jisne Aurat ya Mard se uske piche ke mukam se sohbat (sex) ki usne yakinan kufr kiya.
    [Abu Dawood Shareef]
  • Hazrat Muhammad (sallallahu alyhiwasallam) ne farmaya, ALLAH Qayamat ke din aese shaks ki taraf nazre rehmat nahi farmayega. Jisne apni Aurat ke piche ke raaste se sohbat ki.
    [Bukhari shareef,Tirmizi shareef ,Ibne maja Shareeef]
Note: Isliye biwi ke saath jaanwaro jesa kaam na karen, short mein mera matlab hai ki porn movies jesa kuch na karen. Balki sirf islami tarike se saath mein soiye.

Sohbat (Sex) Ka Tarika Aur Dua :

Shadi karna sunnat hai aur islam ka ek hissa hai. Isliye har insan ko shadi karna chahiye. Bagair kisi jaiz wajah ke agar koi shaadi nahi kar raha ya der se kar raha hai to ye islam ke khilaf hai.

Jin logo ki shadi hone wali hoti hai, unme se bahut se logo ke dimaag mein kuch sawal hote hain ki islam ke hisab se shaadi ke baad ki pehli raat ko kya karna chahiye, ya iska sahi tarika kya hai.

Hum yaha pehli raat ki kuch baat karege, lekin ye baat sirf islam sikhne ki niyat se padhiye, dil mein kuch gandagi na rakhiyeaur na koi galat comment karna. Hamara maksad sirf un logo ko islam ka tarika batana hai jinko is baare mein maalumaat kam hai.

Shaadi ke baad jab ladka room mein jaaye to sabse pehle salam kare, kheriyat maalum kare aur thodi baat karne ke baad ladki ki peshani (forehead) ke baal sidhe haath ahista se pakadiye aur ye dua padhe. Hadees dekhiye, Hazrat Muhammad (sallallaho alayhi wasallam) ne irshad farmaya : jab koi shaks nikah kare aur pehli raat (suhag raat) ko apni dulhan ke paas jaye to narmi ke sath uski peshani ke thode se baal apne sidhe hath me le kar yah dua padhe :'Allahumma in’ni as’a’luka min khai’riha wakhai’ri ma fiha wakhairi ma jabalta’ha alai wa a’udhu bika min shar’riha washar’ri ma fiha wa sharri ma jabalta’ha alai’
(Tarjuma : ae Allah me tujse iski (apni biwi ki) bhalai aur khairo barkat mangta hu aur uski fitri aadato ki bhalai aur teri panah chahta hu iski burai aur fitri aadato ki burai se.
(Abu Dawood : jild-2,page-150, Hasne Hasin : page-164) (Bukhari shareef, Jild 3, Safa 473)

Note: Peshani ke baal pakad kar dua karne se pahle apni biwi ko ye bata sakte hain ki ye hamare aaqa Hazrat Muhammad (sallallahu alyhiwsallam) ka hukm hai, warna jis ladki ko nahi maalum ho wo kuch galat na sochne lage.

Iske baad agar wuzu na ho to wuzu kar lijiye aur 2 rakat namaz nafal, Allah ka shukr ada karne aur usse dua karne ke liye padhiye, Namaz is tarah padhiye (jamat bana kar) ki ladka aage imam ban kar khada ho aur ladki uske piche khade ho jaaye. Dono saath namaz padhe. 

Namaz ki Niyat : niyat ki maine 2 rakat namaz nafil shukrane ki waste Allah ta’ala ke rukh mera kaaba sharif ke taraf Allaho Akbar. 

fir humesha jaise namaz padhte ho waise hi namaz padhe Aur namaz ke baad Shaadi saath kheriyat se hone ke liye Allah ka shukr ada kijiye aur ye dua kariye ki Allah is shaadi ko kaamyab banaye, aage bhi hansi-khushi rakhe, bacche nek de, aur is tarah bhi dua kar sakte hain “ae ALLAH tera shukra aur ehsan hai ki tune hume ye din dikhaya aur hume is khushi wa ne’amat se nawaza aur hume apne Habib sallallaho alayhi wasallam ki sunnat par amal karne ki taufiq ata farmayi. aye Allah humari is khushi ko humesha isi tarah kayam rakh. hume mel-milap pyar muhabbat ke sath zindagi gujarne ki taufiq ata farma. ae Rabbe Qadir hume nek farmabardar aulad ata farma. AAMIN, aur iske alawa jo bhi aap shaadi ki kaamyabi ke liye dua karna chahe kar sakte hain. Dua ke pahle aur aakhir mein darud sharif padh lijiye.

Namaz ke baad kisi bhi kaam mein jald-baazi na karen, balki ladki se is tarah baat kariye ki uski thodi jhijhak door ho jaaye. Thoda apne baare mein baat kariye thoda uski suniye. 

Sohbat se pehle khud bechain na ho jaye apne aap par pura itminan rakhe jaldbaji na kare pehle biwi se Pyar Muhabbat ki batchit kare fir bos wa kinar (Kiss) wagaira se usko razi kare aur isi duran dil hi dil me ye dua padhe:
"Bismillahil Aliyul Azime Allaho Akbar Allaho Akbar"
Tarjuma: "Allah ke nam se Jo bujurg wa Bartar ajmatwala he. Allah bahut bada he. Allah bahut bada he.
iske bad jab mard, Aurat, Sohbat ka irada kar le to kapade jism se alag karne se pehle ek martaba "Surah ikhlas" Padhe
"Kul huwallaho Ahad. Allahussamad. Lam-ya-lid. Walam yoolad walam ya kullahu kufuwan ahad."
Surah ikhlas padhne ke bad ye Sohbat Ke Pehle Padhne Ki dua padhe
"Bismillahi Allahumma jannib nash shaitana wa janne bish shaitana ma rajak tana."
Tarjuma: "Allah ke nam se. Ae Allah door kar humse shaitan mardud ko aur door kar shaitan mardud ko us Aulad se jo tu hume ata karega"
(Bukhari sharif, Jild 3, Safa 473)

Note : Ye yaad rakhiye ki jo peshani ke baal pakad kar dua karna hai wo sirf pehli raat mein hi padhna hai aur ek hi baar padhna hai, lekin ye waali dua (“Bismillahi Allahumma jannib nash Shaitana, wa Janni bish-Shaitana ma razaq tana) aapko hamesha padhna hai, jab bhi biwi ke saath sone ka irada ho usse pahle is dua ko padhna zaruri hai, chhoti si dua hai, 4-5 baar padhne se yaad ho jaayegi, agar is dua ko padhe bagher aap biwi ke saath sote hain to ho sakta hai ki shaitan/jinn bhi aapke saath-saath aapki biwi se sohbat kar le. Is dua ko padhne se Allah hifazat farmata hai.

Hazrat ibne Abbas Radiallahu Anhu se Riwayat he ke Huzoor Sallalaho Alayhi Wasallam ne irshad farmaya...
"Jo shaks is dua ko Sohbat ke waqt padhega (Dua wahi jo upar likhi he) to Allah us padhnewale ko agar Aulad ata farmaye to us Aulad ko Shaitan kabhi bhi nuksan na pahuncha sakega"
(Bukhari sharif Jild 3,Safa 85, Tirmizi sharif, Jild 1, Safa 557)

Huzoor Gause Aazam Saiyedna Shaikh Abdul Qadir Jilani wa Hazrat Muhkkike islam shaikh Abdul haq mohoddas dahalwi aur Aala hazrat imam Ahmad Raza Khan irshad farmate he
"Agar koi shaks sohbat ke waqt dua na padhe to us shaks ki sharmgah se shaitan lipat jata he aur us mard ke sath shaitan bhi us Aurat se sohbat karne lagta he. Aur jo aulad paida hoti he woh na farman,buri aadatwali,Begairat,Bad-deen hoti he. Shaitan ki is dakhl andaji ki wajahse Aulad me Tabahkari aa jati he"
(Gunyatuttalebin Safa 116, Fatwa-E-Razviya, Jild 9, Safa 48)

Inzal (Mani Nikalte Waqt) ki Dua :

Jis waqt inzal ho yani mard ki Mani uske Uzoo-E-Tanasul se nikal kar Aurat ki Sharmgah me dakhil hone lage us waqt dil hi dilme ye dua padhe:
"Allahumma-La-Taja'al Lish Shaitane Fi-M-Razkatni Nasi-ba"
Tarjuma: "Aye Allah shaitan ke liye hissa na bana usme Jo(Aulad) tu hume ata kare"
(Hisne Hasin Safa 165, Fatwa-E-Razviya Jild 9, Safa 161)

Nikah Ke Ta'alluk Se Chand Hadees :

निकाह दरहकीकत एक ऐसा ताल्लुक हैं जो औरत मर्द के दरम्यान एक पाकदामन रिश्ता हैं जो मरने के बाद भी ज़िन्दा रहता हैं बल्कि निकाह हैं ही इसलिये के लोगो के दरम्यान मोहब्बत कायम रह सकेजैसा के नबी सल्लललाहो अलेहे वसल्लम ने फ़रमाया-
» 
हदीस : हज़रत अब्दुल्लाह बिन अब्बास (रज़ी अल्लाहु अनहुसे रिवायत हैं के रसूलल्लाह (सल्लल्लाहु अलैहि  सल्लमने फ़रमाया – के ‘आपस मे मोहब्बत रखने वालो के लिये निकाह जैसी कोई दूसरी चीज़ नही देखी गयी|’
– (
इब्ने माजा)

» हदीसे नबवी से साबित हैं के निकाह औरत मर्द के साथ-साथ दरअसल दो खानदान का भी रिश्ता होता हैं जो निकाह के बाद कायम होता हैं|इसका अव्वल तो ये फ़ायदा होता हैं के अगर एक मर्द और औरत की निकाह से पहले मोहब्बत मे हो तो गुनाह के इमकान हैं लेकिन अगर उनका निकाह कर दिया जाये तो गुनाह का इमकान नही रहतादूसरे उनकी मोहब्बत हमेशा के लिये निकाह मे तबदील हो जाती हैं जो जायज़ हैं साथ ही दो अलग-अलग खानदान आपस मे एक-दूसरे से वाकिफ़ होते हैं और एक नया रिश्ता कायम होता हैं|मोहब्बत के साथ-साथ निकाह नफ़्स इन्सानी के सुकुन का भी ज़रिय हैं जिससे इन्सान सुकुन और फ़ायदा हासिल करता हैं|

अल्लाह कुरान मे फ़रमाता हैं-
» अलकुरान : और उसी की निशानियो मे से एक ये हैं की उसने तुम्हारे लिये तुम्ही मे से बीवीया पैदा की ताकि तुम उनके साथ रहकर सुकून हासिल करे और तुम लोगो के दरम्यान प्यार और उलफ़त पैदा कर दीइसमे शक नही गौर करने वालो के लिये यकिनन बहुत सी निशानिया हैं|
– (
सूरह रूम सूरह नं 30 आयत नं 21)

Related Article You May Know :

10 Tips for a Happy Married Life - Based On Quran and Hadith:-

We have not seen anything that creates LoVe between two individuals such as nikah".

01. FEAR ALLAH:- It was the noble practice of Nabi (صلى الله عليه وسلم) to make the spouses aware of the fear of ALLAH, before performing a Nikah by reciting the verses
(Al Nisa 14, Al Ahzab 69, Aali imran 101).

02. NEVER BE ANGRY AT THE SAME TIME:- Anger is d root cause for all marital disputes. So "Control your anger".

03. IF ONE HAS WIN AN ARGUMENT, LET IT BE THE OTHER:- Nabi e kareem (صلى الله عليه وسلم) Said, "Whoever discards an argument despite being correct shall earn a palace in the center of Jannah
(Mishkat pg.412).

04. IF U HAVE to CRITICIZE, DO IT LOVINGLY:- Nabi (S.A.W) Said, "A Mu'min is a mirror for a Mu'min"
(Abu Dawood vol 2, pg 325 imdadiya) (Advice with Dignity & Silently).

05. NEVER SHOUT AT EACH OTHER UNLESS THE HOUSE IS ON FIRE:- Luqman (a.s) while offering advice to his son Said, "And lower your voice for verily d most disliked voice is that of a donkey.
(Surah luqman19).

06. NEVER BRING UP MISTAKES OF THE PAST:- Nabi (صلى الله عليه وسلم) Said, "Whoever conceals the faults of others, Allah shall conceals his faults on the day of Qayam'ah".

07. NEGLECT THE WHOLE WORLD RATHER THAN YOUR MARRIAGE PARTNER:- Nabi (صلى الله عليه وسلم) Confirmed d advice of Salman (رضي الله عنه) for neglecting his wife, "verily there is a right of your wife over you"
(Nasai 2391).

08. NEVER SLEEP WITH AN ARGUMENT UNSETTLED:- Hazrat Abu Bakar (رضي الله عنه) resolved his dispute with his wife over feeding the guest before going to bed 
(Bukhari 602).

09. AT LEAST, ONCE EVERY DAY, EXPRESS YOUR GRATITUDE TO YOUR PARTNER:- Nabi (صلى الله عليه وسلم) Said, "Whoever doesn't show gratitude to the people has not shown gratitude to ALLAH
(Abu dawud pg. 662).

10. WHEN U HAVE DONE SOMETHING WRONG, BE READY TO ADMIT IT AND ASK FOR FORGIVENESS:- Nabi (صلى الله عليه وسلم) Said,"All d son of Adam commit error. And d best of those are those who seek forgiveness" 
(Tirmidhi 2499).

There are many ways of increasing love between the couple, consider the following these 10 points to maintain a happy marriage & control d instincts of dispute...

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